Joyce Maurer: A Remarkable Journey from Full House to Full Heart
She has 10 kids, and she’s still one calm lady
From Star Magazine by David Goldstein
July 14, 1991
How did she do it? Joyce Maurer shrugs off the question. Yes, raising 10 children – one born every 18 months or so – wasn’t the easiest job. Putting out oil-well fires might be only slightly more taxing. But the 52-year-old mother from Mission reared her brood of eight boys and two girls while working as a registered nurse at night. And four years ago, with four children still at home, she went back to college to get her nursing degree. Meanwhile, her husband, Richard, was putting in six- and seven-day work weeks as operations manager at a trucking company. “He always said he should have been a pediatrician or a grocer,” Maurer says, laughing. They had hoped for a large family, no particular number in mind, and now Maurer says she would not want one less than she had.
The children range in age from 15 to 31. Most have moved out of a household where the clock was set by who had a basketball game or what hour the swim meet began. With so many kids, “some pretty weird stuff would happen,” Maurer says. “One of the brothers stuck straight pins in another’s pillow. Another stuck rocks up his nose because his brother told him to do it.”
She can count a few wrecked cars, too, over the years, but no one was ever arrested for drugs, became a teen-age parent or worse. “Nobody’s had to spend any time in the pen,” she cracks. Maurer says she worked all those years because one salary was just not enough. But she says it also was therapy.
“I feel like I was a better mother for getting out of the house those early years.” If she’s learned anything about being a parent, it’s this: “Be really supportive of your kids in everything they do. Find the best in each kid and nurture that. Each one is as different as night and day. They all have very unique personalities and neat attributes. Some have deficits you have to learn to accommodate and live around. You just have to learn to be very, very flexible and not get uptight. “My kids joke to this day, ‘Yeah, we broke a leg, but we had to wait two days until Mom took us to the doctor.’” Maurer shrugs. “I never got excited about anything.”
A Legacy of Love and Perserverance
Getting to know Joyce
Joyce Ann Maurer, born and raised in Cincinnati, Ohio, was a woman of remarkable strength and dedication. Her journey took her to Kansas City, where she attended the College of St. Theresa’s, now Avila University. In 1959, she achieved a significant milestone by earning her Associate Degree in Nursing (ADN), laying the foundation for what would be an extraordinary career in nursing.
Joyce's personal life was as rich and fulfilling as her professional one. In 1959, she married the love of her life, Richard Maurer, whom she met at a Rockhurst University mixer. Their marriage was a beautiful journey that lasted over 55 years, during which they welcomed ten children and were blessed with 23 grandchildren. Joyce balanced her demanding role as a mother with a successful 45-year career in nursing, a testament to her incredible resilience and commitment.
Her professional journey was marked by significant achievements. Joyce worked as an ER nurse and was a vital part of the Life Flight team as an air ambulance nurse. Not one to rest on her laurels, at the age of 51, she returned to Avila University. After 30 years as a practicing nurse, she earned her Bachelor of Science in Nursing (BSN) in 1991. Her pursuit of excellence didn't stop there; Joyce continued her education and earned her Nurse Practitioner Degree from the University of Kansas in December 1994. Remarkably, she completed all her degrees while working full-time.
Joyce Ann Maurer passed away on December 11, 2015, leaving behind a trailblazing legacy. Her life is a beacon of inspiration, showing what can be achieved through love, perseverance, and an unwavering dedication to family and career. Joyce's story continues to inspire and influence, reminding us all of the power of determination and the beauty of balancing life's many roles with grace and strength.